Everyday Life Updates

So much has been going on in my life lately–it’s crazy how time seems to slip by so quickly! I love to read posts about everyday life from other bloggers, because I think it’s really interesting to have a “day in the life” experience with someone whose life is completely different (or sometimes, not-so-different) from my own 🙂 It’s the best of both worlds, really– I’m either experiencing something completely new or I feel comforted by the thought of “I’m not the only one who does that!”

I love my job(s)

Yep, that’s right–I said job(s). I was recently lucky enough to score a brand new weekend job! It’s with a specialty card shop; not stationary or anything like that, but more like card games! We sell Pokemon, Magic the Gathering, assorted baseball cards…you name it, we got it.


I love it so much.

This job requires me to hang out with kids more often than not. I have a general uneasiness around kiddos, but this place is quickly curing me of that because they’re all SO CUTE. It’s not like working retail in a department store where parents let their kids run loose (“Stop throwing shoes Jimmmmyyyyyyyyyyuhhh”). No, this is different because these kids are here for themselves and they are so excited. It’s precious to see their faces light up when they enter the room, and how shy/excited they are to tell you all about their favorite Pokemon. (I love Pokemon too, mostly for nostalgic reasons, so this job is basically perfect!). They just want to be around you and be close to you and show you all of their cool things which I am so on-board for! The company van even features Pokemon on it, and kids always get excited when they see it so we keep little cards & novelties on-hand to give out for them. I’m basically the Pokemon fairy & it’s the best thing ever??

Of course, that’s not to say that we don’t cater to other clientele, which I like just as much if not better! It’s great to be around people, adults and children alike, who share the same passion. 10/10 working life. Also, did you know that Final Fantasy has a card game?? Because I didn’t either & I can’t wait to try it. I love the video games series so much, so I was pumped to see it’s made its way into other mediums. Expect a separate post with details!

My only complaint is that I’ve got that old lady problem now, of falling asleep within 15 minutes of turning something on to watch. Because of this…I’m so far behind on so many things ):

I’ve been dreading my forth-coming evaluation at my weekday job–but I got such a good review that I kind of want to hang it on my fridge for my roommate to stare at! My weekend job lets little kids bring in their report cards for good grades–they’ll get a booster pack of Pokemon cards for it. I wonder if this counts, too? I’m gonna go for it.

I’m Moving

(Thank all that is good.)

I already signed the lease; all I need to do is pay the fees and finish up all of my packing! (Definitely not an easy task, as I tend to collect all sorts of things from manga/books & figures to movies & video games!)

My current residence is less-than-ideal; I have half a mind to call the health department on them for all of their negligence. But–what’s done is done, & I’m just thankful to be moving on. I only need to make it three more weeks & then I’m free!! Expect a future post on my new setup that I will have 🙂


(Can you tell I’m excited?) I’ve worked in an architecture firm so I know how to make proper drawings!**

**Outright lie; my architecture friends are dry heaving right now at the site of this, I’m sure 🙂

I’m excited, it’s in a really nice neighborhood that’s closer to downtown; & it’s a historic building so that means more space for less money! The hardwood floors are lovely & I will have a walk-out second level porch! Mine is the smallest room in the apartment, but I don’t mind because it has lots of nice, natural lighting & a built in bookcase–what more can I possibly ask for??

Speaking of moving…

My sister is moving to Korea

Okay, no even fair! She is planning to teach English in South Korea for a year. I forget which town she will be in, but from what I can tell it’s about two hours between Seoul & the coast! I really hope I get the chance to visit her while she’s there, but I can’t manage to save money for the life of me, with all the collecting that I do…..keep your fingers crossed for me. (& your toes, for good measure.)

What’s been going on in your lives, lately? Tell me some stories! I would love to hear them.



Currently Playing/Watching/Reading

So one of my favorite blogs that I follow on here is Flavia the Bibliophile (Hey girl heeeeeyyyy), & this is a series of posts that she will do at least once a month that details all of her currents. I really like this idea, because it gives me a chance to ramble to someone (or no one, depending on if the blog ever gets read or not) about the things I am really enjoying (& in some cases, not enjoying!). Please note: My playing/watching sections are spoiler-free, but my reading section is not. So without further ado, let’s get started!

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Currently Playing: Final Fantasy XV

I actually bought this game the first day that it was released, but as you can see I’ve been dragging my feet on it. I’m currently about 43% through the game and loving every minute of it! So far I’ve only been playing in the open world side of things, attempting to finish as many side quests as I can. I’ve been trying to level up my boys as well, because I’m nervous about how things will go once I make it to the story-driven part of the game. (Seriously, I got stuck in IX that way because I didn’t level up enough and I didn’t stock enough restoratives. I got stuck in the same field for weeks until I started over again…whoops).

I’m loving all of the extra details as well, from the fishing, the cooking, and OF COURSE the baby Chocobos! I really like that you can change the colors and name them as you please. Also can we talk about those EPIC guardian summons?!?! Ramuh scares the crap out of me every single time & I love it so much. He’s my dude! I can’t wait to see if there are other summons available as the game progresses.

My only slight complaint about this game kind of comes as a double-edged sword; while the whole open world/thousands of side quests is really, really fun, I think it distracts the audience from the main story more than I would like to admit. I can see why they only did part of the game as open world for that reason. I also think they tried to reconcile this by releasing an anime (Brotherhood) with back story, Kingsglaive as a prequel movie, and of course there was the precious demo with young prince Noctis and another guardian, Carbuncle. (This was adorable and reminded me of a nice mix between Kingdom Hearts and Supernatural. I would definitely recommend it!) All three of these were wonderful in their own right, and helped to remind the audience of the story.

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I’m mostly dragging my feet because I know the rest of the story/the ending will make me REALLY sad….but eventually I will make myself push through it and continue. As of now I would definitely recommend this game to any RPG fan!

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Currently Watching: Goblin, the Lonely & Great God

I have a feeling that this is something I would have liked a lot more when I was younger and in high school or early college–that’s not to say that I don’t like it now because it’s simply stunning. There are many parts to this intricate story that hit me pretty deep. I’m currently on episode 13 of 18, so I will wait to give my final review–but here are some of my current thoughts and positives on this series:

*The music is so beautiful! I’ve never fallen in love with a K-Drama score like I have this one. It’s ethereal and heart-wrenching, which makes the story that much more beautiful. Music plays a large part in any story, because it enhances the emotions of any given situation.  A+++++++

(The visuals are just as stunning, by the way)

*The story is epic, complicated, and lovely. I am a big fan of series that make me think, and this one does just that. Rather than follow the typical outline of a K-drama, this one is different in that there is no love triangle/second love interest; instead, the second male lead gets his own story line that intertwines deeply with the two main characters. This is important, because they’re all together both in the past and the present (You’ll see what I mean when you watch it). This series makes you contemplate morality, the difference between right and wrong, and how the consequences of your actions affect everyone around you. Story is also A+++++++

*My only complaint (if I can call it that, because it’s not deterring me in any way) is the fact that I like the second lead & his story more than I like the main love story…but that’s more so just a matter of preference! I think it’s because the main female love interest is younger and so far, she hasn’t been given a lot of character growth–I feel like she’s not as well-rounded as the other characters. This is what I meant when I said I might enjoy it if I’d seen it when I was younger–there are some moments when the male leads are constantly rescuing her or fawning over her & I just think….why?

With all of these elements combined, despite my hesitation about the main female lead I would still recommend this K-Drama all the way! I watch mine on Netflix & Dramafever (Which also has an app on the PS4 in case you were wondering). Where do you watch yours?

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Currently Watching (Also): Tsuki Ga Kirei

This is a sweet, quiet little slice of life anime that I’m really enjoying. Though it centers around a romance, I would like to classify it in this category rather than the shojo or romance drama categories, mainly because it differs from them in the sense that it avoids a lot of tropes. (Not that tropes are always a bad thing.)

It’s about two third year middle school students who are sort of finding their way around their first romantic experience. It’s sweet and realistic in my opinion; they talk more over Line (texting) than in person because they’re both very shy, and it showcases all the subtleties and misunderstanding that often happen in a young relationship without going over the top. I relate to these kids so much because I’m also very shy, especially when it comes to romance; I also like to keep my private life to myself.

It’s a quiet piece but I’m enjoying it all the same–not all relationships have a big, loud start! So far I’m on episode 6 of 12, I’ll keep you all posted. Slice of Life is my favorite genre, do you guys have any suggestions or favorites that I should try? 🙂


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Currently Reading: Glitter by Aprilynne Pike

So I read this book for my book club that I have tomorrow night; most of the ladies in my circle are librarians who happen to be in charge of the YA section, so most of our selections since I have joined are all YA. I don’t mind this at all, but I do have to say….

hated this book so much. (I’m sorry if I offend anyone!)

The story was rushed, most of the characters are two-dimensional, and the main character, Danica, is quite possibly one of the worst characters I have come across in YA literature. She’s selfish and will step on everyone around her to get ahead.

***Lots of spoilers from this point on***

The premise is that Danica is being forced to marry a murderous young king through the manipulations of her own power-hungry mother. From this standpoint, I can definitely sympathize with Danica–who would want to marry an abusive psychopath?! What I can’t justify is all of her actions after this point.

Desperate to leave, she tries to pay a criminal to help her escape from her cruel fate. However, at the last  moment he raises the price so high that she must figure something else out, and quick. So what does she turn to? Selling drugs, of course….

I think the idea is interesting enough–it’s a dystopian society (Why is YA so obsessed with this concept?) set in the future of France, where a large corporation has bought out the palace of Versailles and created a “bubble” of noble elite who still dress like it’s the 1700’s but have the all the comforts of modern society, such as robots for servants called M.A.R.I.E. (subtle, I know).

In order to make her great escape, Danica comes up with the clever idea of selling “happiness” drugs disguised as makeup–hence “Glitter.” Not only is she drugging all of noble society without their knowledge and consent, but she’s aiding her own father’s terrible addiction as well. Instead of, I don’t know…helping him get clean?!

She’s in love with her dealer …she spends all of her time saying “Why doesn’t he love me” instead of, “Wow this guy could kill me.” It’s incredibly stupid and vapid of her to think this way–especially about the guy who’s using her to sell drugs?!?!? How could he possibly be appealing to her? There’s little development in the area of his character except that one day he hates her and then all of a sudden he loves her. Instalove, much?

Once again I gotta come back to the whole stepping on people to get ahead thing.


Because of her, her own mother and best friend die of an overdose; her dealer boyfriend gets put in jail (the only person she bothers to check on and promise to come back for), she leaves her father to die alone from withdraws in captivity, & she openly admits to her other friend, “hey, you’re gonna get in a BUNCH of trouble once I leave and you’ll have to pick up the pieces.” (AND THEN SHE LEAVES ANYWAY.) Like, this girl deserves all the bad juju that will come her way after all is said and done.

I also have to wonder–since this book will be a series, why did she rush the ending so much? There was so much more potential there.

*heavy breathing* The rant is over, I promise.


Spider-Man: Homecoming

“Finally, the Spider-Man we all deserve!”


I’ve heard people describe this movie in such a way even before it’s premiere & let me tell you–they are absolutely right. I’ve only just watched it yesterday, but it was so well executed that I could’ve sat there in the theater for yet another showing and been perfectly content. (Which is saying something, because this movie is a whooping 2hrs.&15 mins. long). Tom Holland was the perfect choice for our young hero, breathing new life into the character. I felt the whole spectrum of emotion: Fear, joy, sadness. I spent a good amount of time watching through my fingers (Both from anxiety and, in some cases, second-hand embarrassment.)…where do I even start?!**


**Probably by saying that I’m not good at keeping secrets and therefore, I might end up writing in some spoilers because I don’t always think before I speak. So if you haven’t seen this movie yet, out of the kindness of my heart I have to tell you…back off & come back later!


Been there, Seen That

A+ for avoiding all of the cliched parts of the Spider-Man origin story; this journey begins after his accident, as well as after Uncle Ben has died. Any allusions to those parts of Peter’s life are mentioned once, casually, as the story moves forward. That’s not to say that they just push Uncle Ben under the rug–I think they paid him a much better homage in this story by subtle, superb writing techniques–i’ll touch more on that here in a second.


That’s the downfall in a lot of these superhero movies–we can only see Uncle Ben (As well as Thomas & Martha Wayne) be killed so many times before it becomes oversaturated.


(No, this movie is not “Avengers 4 with Spider-Man in it”).

If you feel this way, it makes me sad because it’s almost like you missed the point! Yes, there were some Captain America cameos in there (but not really?…It’s super funny, trust me), but it was more so a goal, an aspiration of Peter to be a part of the Team than anything, and as an audience you see how isolated and far away he felt from them. I liked that this version acknowledged the fact that both Spider-Man and the Avengers not only live in the same universe, but in the same city–which makes that idea so much more frustrating and relatable. So close, and yet so far away. No, you don’t actually see any of the Avengers other than Iron Man, which brings me to my next point:



Oh man–I’m not fifteen anymore, but this film reminded me exactly of how it felt to be fifteen. Homecoming was a breath of fresh air because it was written so differently than its predecessors; it focused more on Peter’s daily life, and how he coped with the newfound “responsibility” of his powers and what it means to just be a kid–kind of like a story about a kid who just-so-happens to be Spider-man, rather than the other way around. He was awkward, lovable, and all-around relatable–which, in my case, means he was a bit of a mess up. (Aren’t we all?). He was impulsive, he didn’t think things through, and he wanted to rush into something much bigger than himself. He was so ready to just grow up, prove himself and be a part of the “Team.”


This brings me to my favorite thing to talk about in regards to this movie–his complicated relationship with Iron Man.He is the only direct line that Peter has to the Avengers, and he is someone that Peter feels is especially absent. This was SO WELL DONE because I think it’s a subtle way of reminding us of the absence of Uncle Ben & how much Peter unknowingly wants to depend on Tony. This is a perfect example of showing, not telling–and it’s GREAT.


On the one hand, I’m frustrated with Tony just as much as Peter is, because we were all teenagers once–we know how it feels to be silenced and unheard by adults who do not take us seriously. But as an adult, I also feel for Tony–he didn’t have a good relationship with his Dad, and he certainly doesn’t know how to be a role model to anyone else. (I don’t know how to handle myself around people a lot younger than me either, so I’m in no place to judge here.) But, I think that’s one of the brilliant things about the writing in this movie–neither character is truly wrong, but neither character is truly right, either. This remains true in most human relationships, so I really liked that. Just….FEELINGS. So many feelings.


The Anti-Hero

They went the good old anti-hero route for our villain: The Vulture (also refreshing in its own way because we’re all pretty tired of the Green Goblin at this point). He’s your run-of-the-mill blue-collar worker who gets screwed over by the government and decides to take revenge (okay, it’s a bit more complicated than that but I’m sure you guys are probably tired of reading at this point if you haven’t given up already). I do enjoy that many stories take the time to help you understand the villains, and to let you sympathize with them in your own way. Michael Keaton made his own stunning performance in this  character, and I’m grateful for that as well. 


However, I’m glossing over all of that because I want to talk about THIS MOMENT (Spoiler warning):


This was my favorite piece of writing in almost this entire movie (Still spoilers, I’m sorry):


Up to this point, we’ve seen Peter be pushed to the wayside by adults and especially Tony; they’ve made it abundantly clear that he’s still a kid and has a lot of growing to do, and he’s not to be taken seriously. When an adult sees you as a child, there are certain things they say and do vs. certain things that they would definitely NOT say or do.


The first time that someone acknowledges him in this movie, and treats him as an adult, is when the Vulture turns to him and says, “I’m going to kill you. If you do not walk away from this right now, I will kill you.” THAT in itself was brilliant, and it definitely gave me chills. SO MANY CHILLS. In that moment, I felt the gravity of the situation and Peter’s raw fear–which makes it so much more powerful that he wouldn’t walk away. 


Final Thoughts

I have no other words for you except to say…go see this movie. It was brilliantly executed in my opinion, and I can’t wait to see more from our leading man Tom Holland. For me, this film was an easy 10/10.


The Power of Self-Confidence

Today I wanted to talk about self-confidence, and just how far it can take you (spoiler alert–you can get pretty dang far.) I’ve recently undergone some changes in my life, the first of which being that I finally secured a good, stable job. But that’s a subject for another time–right now I want to focus on how I got this job, and the emotional turmoil I had to go through in order to push myself hard enough to make the change that I needed.

I don’t know if any of you have ever read Amanda Palmer’s autobiography, The Art of Asking, but in case you haven’t–here is one of my absolute favorite passages:

“Why do I keep doing this to myself? Why do I keep making the same mistakes over and over again?”

“Because, love–it doesn’t hurt enough yet.

Right there, in that moment, I had my first “Eureka!” moment. If you are not happy, it is so important to make a change–but it’s MORE than that–I want you to know that you are perfectly capable of making changes in your own life. You don’t ever have to feel stuck.  I struggle with a lot of self-doubt & what I’ve heard described as “Imposter Syndrome”. (It basically means that even though you are absolutely qualified to do what you do, you often feel like you don’t know what you’re doing & you’re faking it to get by). I never reached for anything simply because it never occurred to me that I could–does that make any sense?

This is actually my third time changing jobs this year, and with any luck it will be my last. I left job #1 after having been there over two years simply because the commute was killer (It was 62 miles one way.) I have nothing but good memories and love for that time in my life, but I knew it was time to make a change.

Here’s where the going gets tough–I jumped into job #2 without any sort of research on my part, which was negligent and downright stupid. (If I could impart any sort of wisdom when job searching….ALWAYS do your research.) This position turned out to be the worst situation I could have gotten myself into. I worked there for maybe 3 months and ran out of the door as quickly as I could. I cried almost every night, and I was too stressed to function properly. I left work everyday constantly feeling like a failure, and felt that I was going to be miserable there forever. In that moment, I definitely hurt enough.

I won’t spend time boring you with the details of every reason I think this job was awful, because:

  1. I don’t think it’s morally right to speak badly of others
  2. what could I possibly gain from that? That time in my life is so thankfully over, and there’s no use crying over it (anymore, at least!). It’s certainly never going to show up on my resume, that’s for sure.


So often you hear the well-meant phrase, “Quitters never win” or something akin to that–the whole idea that it’s important to push yourself and finish what you’ve started.

I understand why this is an important message, but in my mind this is not always the right message. In some cases, I think it takes much more strength and courage to admit to yourself that something isn’t right for you, and it’s okay to quit. But that’s the scariest part–what do you do with yourself when you realize that it’s time to leave? For me, that meant calling in & spending two full days binge-watching Sailor Moon Crystal  looking for work full-time.

I pushed myself beyond my self-doubts, and that persistence paid off. I now work in a place that brings me joy, and I’ve found myself surrounded by positive energy and creative, like-minded individuals. (& some not like-minded–but that makes it even better.)

I think I’m getting a little too wordy, so here’s the part where I skip to the “How I did it” phase. Below are some helpful tips about job searching–keep in mind that I’m definitely no professional, and that these are simply the things that I feel helped me the most.


Find A Good Support System

I fully understand that if it weren’t for my wonderful roommate & my dad, I would not have had the confidence to make this happen. Every night that I would come home crying, my roommate would gently remind me of what I’m trying to tell you now–that you’re so much better than you think you are. She encouraged me to keep pushing forward and to not be afraid, and gave me so many helpful tips along the way.

Set A Goal

This helps a lot, because The Search can be overwhelming. Do what is best for you–I told myself I wanted to apply to a least two jobs a day. People will try to tell you that’s not enough, but don’t listen.


Do Your Research

I’m the poster child of “fly by the seat of your pants.” I’m pretty impulsive, forgetful & I don’t always have the attention span required. However, if you want to avoid being miserable, this is the most important step. You can do this! Find a job you think would be a good fit, and tell this employer why you’re the best! (Because you are.)


Customize Your Resume

We’ve all heard the phrase, “Dress like the job you want to have.” The same could be said of your resume; research aspects of the job you’re applying to, and highlight what you’d be the best at in your cover letter & resume. It’s all in the phrasing, my friends. It’s a pain in the butt to edit for every job you’re applying to, but I promise you it will make a difference. Show them what you can do!


Utilize Your Resources

I was really fortunate in that I only had to spend 2-3 weeks seriously looking for a job, & I think a lot of it had to do with how I went about using resources available to me. LinkedIn really works. I couldn’t believe it, but it’s true. I immediately went in and updated my LinkedIn, and signed up for the 30-day FREE premium trial (Which is what helped me the most, I think!) With LinkedIn premium, your resume gets bumped to the top of the list that any employer can see, and LinkedIn will also give you percentages of how you compete with others–this is important too, because this actually helped my self confidence a LOT. You really are better than you think you are, and LinkedIn is there to remind you of that.

Placement agencies are also another good option. I met with a local company here, and they really helped me spruce up my resume. Also, despite the fact that they’ll get paid when you get hired–in my experience, they genuinely want to help.


You’re So Much Better Than You Think You Are

Congratulations if you’ve been reading along with me this whole time–this is the last part where I try to tie in the original message that got lost somewhere along the way. You really are better than you think you are. Really. Take time to do some self-reflection, and remember that you can do things just as much as anyone else can. You’re not unqualified. Try reaching for something that you want, and you’ll be surprised that you don’t fail as often as you think you will. It’s okay to have some confidence.

Remember that nice office job I was just talking about, with all the happy people in it? It took me three days to apply to it because I didn’t think I qualified for it–I didn’t have as much experience as they required, and there were 158 other applicants. I applied on a half-hearted whim so that I could tell myself that night, “at least I tried.”


Because I took that first step, because I tried, I got somewhere. Just know that you can, too.


Introduction: Does a Blog need a Theme to be Successful?

Because let me tell you my friend, that’s probably not what you’re going to find here. There are too many wonderful topics and ideas that I feel the need to write about–while I applaud the meticulously perfect “specialty” blog (Seriously, that takes a lot of discipline and self-study)–I’m not a very well-formatted individual to begin with.

So what am I going to talk about, you ask? What kind of entertainment can you hope to glean from this? I honestly can’t even tell you that. Maybe it would help if I made a list of some of my favorite things? If you think you might like to hear more about these topics, subscribe and stay tuned!

*Video games




*Collecting (take that how you will…)


*Comic Books (Mostly Marvel/Image and a liiiiittle bit of DC)

(If you haven’t noticed, I’m kinda big on escapism.)

Expect to see lots of content involving these topics, peppered with life’s smaller pleasures (such as dogs, used books stores & Pepperjack cheese). I’m new to blogging, so please forgive any beginner’s mistakes! Maybe you can help me out here; what are some of YOUR favorite things? Are there any other blogs out there that you guys could recommend to me?